HELP

ok i have a dilemma, here goes:

ok i have a friend who is taking her art exam, shes really bummed and in britain you do your art exam in two days, 4 hours a day and she is really upset because according to her it is **** (its probably not) and she wont finish it (which she will) but i wanna brighten up her day so here comes the difficult part. she has not enough money to buy the justin timberlake album (she likes cool music but this is summit she likes, i dunno why but hey) so i was gonna download and burn it for her, however, with me being a guy and her a girl (with a boyfriend of 18months) i dont know if this is too friendly cause she is really cool but (because of my nature) i flirt with all the grls i meet and i dont want everyone to think i like her like that its just that of all my friends she is the one im most similar to and i hate seein her unhappy, probably cause it is so unusual but usually it lasts absolutely ages.

complex as that is i would appreciate any assistance y'all can provide me with.

wow...burning a CD for a girl means you like her? where have i been?



~Ryan~

nah thats not really the problem its that every friend i have that is a girl has been (whether its true or not) linked to me in a more romantic way, including this girl and i dont want her bf to get the rong i dea cos he would beat the **** outa me.

Go for it dude.

You'll look cool (except for the fact that you'll have justin timberlake on your hard drive) and she'll love it. And thats what matters. Not what her boyfriend thinks.

James

im just a bit paranoid cos me and her bf are good friends but he is much bigger than me and could easily squich me, not how i would like to start my thursday and justin will be on my hard drive as long as it takes to download and burn no more otherwise it will start to damage the coolness of my blue imac!!

ok just do it cos really it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks. people need to learn that you can have JUST a friendship with a member of the opposite sex (oh im not bitter....)

and anyways if people start being mean its an excuse to go find a girlfriend to shut them up!



Post Edited (05-07-03 15:56)

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Rock and Roll Queen

I always said that too...that you can have friends of the opposite sex. But it always turns out that one of them has feelings for the other one. At least with really good friends. Doesn't mean that those feelings get acted upon but usually they are there.

Harry: No man can be friends with a woman he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: So, you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them too.


I love that movie!



~MeLiSsA

thanks y'all im gonna give her the cd, who cares who it pisses off, if it makes her more happy then what could be more important and if her boyfriend wants to beat the living **** outta me for doin somethin nice for his girlfriend (without having feelings for her and he knows that) then i think we all know who has the problem!!

thanks again

It does matter what her boyfriend thinks.. geez.. that's why he goes by the title of her boyfriend and not some guy.. but as guys that like other boyfriends girls, which is pretty much any guy, we tend to just brush it off..

Anyway, if you think she'll enjoy it and tell her boyfriend that he shouldn't be mad then you should do it.

That's a real sweet thing to do depending on how you deliver it; so since you don't care about her that way, you shouldn't make such a big deal about it if you see what I mean.

Lastly, if you really don't care about her that way then you should care what he thinks; because if it will make him mad then you just shouldn't do it since you don't care about her in an intimate way and it wouldn't make a difference since it's just another girl you flirt with.

Word.



I absolutely love her when she smiles

an 8 hour art exam? Holysweetgoddamn



~SOFiA~

"you wont hear me, still you endear me, now..woo woo"

ok my problem just exploded

so i burn the cd, i see her at school but forget, then i have to stay lae and so does she cause i have history and she has liek some lesson, when we are walkin home we stop and i give her the cd, just in passing, as if its of no significance, just like "oh i burnt this for you cause you were down yesterday". then completely unexpectedly she like breaks down and starts crying and stuff!! apparently her and her boyfriend have hit a sticky patch and are reall going at each other all the time. now i ddi not know this and according to her im the first person shes told, at school theyve been compltely normal.

then she got a bit more comfortable with me and like started really REALLY coming on to me. then she kissed me. this was not the expected result!!

we didnt really talk after cause we were outside her house when i gave her the cd and so she just like said bye and went inside, ive not spoke to her since!!

sooo there it is, im REALLY surprised and i dont wanna ruin my friendship with her or her boyfriend so... wot do i do?? my instinct is sayin in need to basically talk it throughand clear the air but i dont wanna reject her cause that would be really harsh, im soooo confused i wanna make sure y'all know i dont like her like that!! how do i talk to her, let her down or what... this is my first time in thi kinda situation

make her another CD......love songs on it...you know..like Barry White and others like him.


then you go up to give it to her..and don't say a word.

The key to success is how you give it to her.


Get yourself fired up and put your johnson through the hole in the middle of the CD.


This way there is no grey area as to how you feel about her.


Trust me, it works.



Post Edited (05-08-03 17:57)

i laughed... so hard....

wow

-Mike





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