So Unfair

I finally find a guy I'm totally smitten for, and guess what I am moving away in 2 months...... gahhhhh. Can't I take my hott soccer player with me when I move?? lol....Yes I realize this is off topic, but I needed to vent.....thanks



Post Edited (06-25-03 07:03)

I was in your postition about 3 months ago. Now it's all over. I'm in the adirondacks and he's in Toronto and after July 4th Hawaii...


Yeah...it sux.



~MeLiSsA

That's a shame.

Sips coffee



I absolutely love her when she smiles

you know what alan, no one forced you to read or respond to this post so if you want to be condescending or just a straight up ******* do it somewhere else, thanks.


oh and thank you Melissa.....yea it does suck.

Sorry you can't take your friend with you



I absolutely love her when she smiles

unfair is right.

or you meet a guy on vacation and hit it off right away, and then you both have to go home, with 2000 miles in between you. and its over before it starts. thats depressing.

well madonna, at least you have 2 months, and after that you could give the long distance thing a try.

good luck.



Post Edited (06-25-03 18:37)

stay in cali ,there done all fixed !!!

Yea Lou wish it was that easy, and as far as long distance relationships go......ugh I wish, but that wouldn't work.

Well then it looks like you've already made up your mind.. you'll get over him and you'll find another hot soccer player or what have you..

There is plenty of us to go around these days.. damn you World Cup performance..



I absolutely love her when she smiles

If you're willing to make it work and it's meant to be something...it will work out. Trust me.

If you feel it'd be worth the effort, then go for it. You never know.

Love,
~Erin~

....long distance relationships.


it doesn't work the way it does with a normal relationship, that's for sure....

i was, sorta still am, in one for the past 3 years on and off. right now we're sorta dating other people where we are and hoping we can see each other soon i guess.

it's very stressful and sometimes depressing ...esp when the distance matter comes up as a problem, you feel so helpless, cause you just want it to go away--the distance. but it doesn't, and no matter what you do, you cannot "be there" for her...

for me, it's 900 miles from New Orleans to Miami. yeah...

if this post sounds depressing and pathetic...i just got off the phone with her, so that's why. lol



~Ryan~

1500 miles.
NY to Texas.

I win.

You miss, but at the same time you love...and the love pulls you through. It's hard, but the love is a cushion that makes it worth it.

~Erin~

i dont think i could handle long distance,
now lets all take a moment to read some cake and reflect on our gracious thoughts


I need your arms around me,
I need to feel your touch,
I need your understanding, I need your love,
So much,

You tell me that you love me so,
You tell me that you care,
But when I need you baby
Baby, You're never there,

On the phone,
Long long distance,
Always through such,
Strong resistance,

When first you say,
You're too busy,
I wonder if you,
Even miss me,

Never there,
You're never there,
You're never, ever,
Ever ever there,

A golden bird that flies away,
A candle's fickle flame,
To think I held you yesterday,
Your love was just a game,

We're always on,
This roller coaster,
If you want me,
Why can't you get closer,

Never there,
You're never there,
You're never, ever,
Ever ever there


my bfs been gone 2 days and im going crazay



Post Edited (06-27-03 00:10)

~SOFiA~

"you wont hear me, still you endear me, now..woo woo"

800 miles from NY to NC for me...

it's.... not fun.... but it is.... i don't know... it's worth it for me, and i suppose it depends on the person. if it's meant to work, then it'll wind up working. but you're going to be living in NY? (i think, i'm not sure.) it's a hell of a lot further from NY to CA and a hell of a lot harder to travel there... unless you both go to kansas...

um

good luck?

-Mike





Go listen to my band. We're awesome.

http://www.myspace.com/rosencrantzny
weallgotwoodandnails

90% of soccer players are attractive so keep your head up.

all soccer players are pillow biters...



hockey players are the best

<<....long distance relationships.


it doesn't work the way it does with a normal relationship, that's for sure....

i was, sorta still am, in one for the past 3 years on and off. right now we're sorta dating other people where we are and hoping we can see each other soon i guess.

it's very stressful and sometimes depressing ...esp when the distance matter comes up as a problem, you feel so helpless, cause you just want it to go away--the distance. but it doesn't, and no matter what you do, you cannot "be there" for her...

for me, it's 900 miles from New Orleans to Miami. yeah...

if this post sounds depressing and pathetic...i just got off the phone with her, so that's why. lol>>

Amen man.

Right now I'm in a long distance relationship (Only 30 miles so I don't have anyone beat, but it sucks cuase I can't drive alone yet) and seeing each other once every few weeks sucks so bad, but there's an unbridled passion that you just don't get when you see each other everyday. It's like you have those 7 hours to release 3 weeks of feelings.

Personally I'd say if you care about each other, you at least owe it to each other to try long distance.

So everything has it's ups and downs..

You'll find another dude.. if you don't want to get hurt get out now before it's too late



I absolutely love her when she smiles

YOU ALL COMPLAIN TOO MUCH.

1500 miles. 30 hours. Once every six months at best, and no clue when we're seeing each other again...maybe a year?

Yeah.

YOU ALL LOSE.

ok. enough whining from me. maybe.

no please.. I'd like to hear more..

I think I speak for everyone on that



I absolutely love her when she smiles

i hate this thread.



rachel......

TROUBLE ROCK NINE DAZE SUCK BIG BALLS.

Ok.
Let's kill it.

::stabs thread::

::hugs rach::

ok, this has turned into a depressing thread...

and, seriousally, i had no idea so many of you had long-distance relationships...

it's funny



~Ryan~

yeah.. what a bunch of losers..






I absolutely love her when she smiles

hey scott, i resent that as a soccer player, but its true, were all sexy, male and female



~SOFiA~

&quot;you wont hear me, still you endear me, now..woo woo&quot;

Yes soccer players are damn sexy, and I found a really sweet amazing one.....oh wait I have to move 3,000 miles away from him in 2 months.....and I don't know when I'd see him again.....well I guess I could always fly back to Cali for spring break, I don't know.....All I know is that everyday I spend with him, I fall harder and harder....

oh and Scott, you're a pillow biter.

*hugs rachel*



~lori~

where's my hug lori?

aww i'm sorry, i only hugged rachel because she said "i hate this thread" and i know she's going through something else....

me sowwie madonna! muah *hugs*



~lori~