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Well in my life school is over for the summer. So now I have mad chill time.
~*wOOt!*
Well my lead guitarist quit the band yesterday, but today he's back.
My philosophy professor is from France and he doesn't wear deodorant. Filthy.
-Mike
 
Go listen to my band. We're awesome.
http://www.myspace.com/rosencrantzny
weallgotwoodandnails
People from France are far too forward.
~ Sofi ~
"And so tomorrow there will be another number for the one who had a name."
I like the guy. He's a funny shmuck. I can relate.
He's got a movie he made coming out in the fall.
-Mike
Go listen to my band. We're awesome.
http://www.myspace.com/rosencrantzny
weallgotwoodandnails
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What a great advert you are.
~ Sofi ~
"And so tomorrow there will be another number for the one who had a name."
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Genesis is right, unfortunately. Not about all guys doing anything to get laid, 'cause I sure haven't. But men do suck.
not me. i had the opportunity to get laid by the married/separated woman i was kinda sort seeing (See "fucked-up situation" thread), but i just couldn't do it because i really didn't want to pursue anything with her and i just can't do that without being involved with a person... despite the fact that she desperately wanted to fuk me.
maybe i'm a nice guy. maybe i'm an idiot, i don't know.
oh, that's right - this is mike's thread.
mike would fuk a married woman.
there ya go.
~ Eric of Wisconsin ~
Nine Days and John Hampson music featured in my independent feature film "Will and Testament"!
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Clearly this is why shy boys are the best kind.
~ Sofi ~
"And so tomorrow there will be another number for the one who had a name."
Sofi, only you and Diana King would think that.
(realizes that no one remembers Diana King)
She had a song on the Bad Boys soundtrack called "Shy Guy" in which she sang about wanting a shy guy and not a fly guy.
The whole "girls like confident guys" thing? MAJOR over-generalisation.
~ Sofi ~
"And so tomorrow there will be another number for the one who had a name."
i'll agrree.
im confident enough for the both of us
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That's going on the assumption that one's aim is to get laid by random skanks all the time. Anyone can pull that off with a little effort.
-Mike
Go listen to my band. We're awesome.
http://www.myspace.com/rosencrantzny
weallgotwoodandnails
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Hey, if ANY chick came up to me in a club I would....I would...I don't know what I'd do. It's never happened before. I'd probably go fetal.
(while standing the laundry room of a random house)
boy: why are all these clothes on the floor?
alpo: theyre holding up my standards. now add yours to them
no bar needed. but i agree with gen's post
"I'm not talking about it in a relationship sense, but in a club atmosphere, which is what you guys were talking about. The dude who stands in a corner with a beer in his hand never gets laid at a party, and that's a fact."
This is pretty true, yeah. Outgoing types are a lot more fun to party with. But I'm not talking shy as in quiet, I'm talking shy as in Doesn't immediately expect you to want them. When a really confident guys asks for your number, it's just like you could be anyone else, and you totally know they'll ask every other girl, and I just find that really pathetic and kinda funny. Then when a really shy guy asks you, you know it's not something he'd do every day and he's actually being really balsy putting himself out there like that and it's cute as.
~ Sofi ~
"And so tomorrow there will be another number for the one who had a name."
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I'd call myself the shy guy type, it takes me quite a bit of courage to work up to ask for the phone number, mainly because even though I party, I don't do random hook ups, they are pointless in my view. I socialize, but when it comes to that stuff I am "reserved" not shy but "reserved"
~Kevin~
And by working up courage, you're talking about the liquid kind, yes?
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anyways, it's basically a continuum, you would want someone in the middle. A really shy guy would be annoying, i think, because you would have a hard time getting him to really open up and have fun and enjoy all that life has to offer. It may be cute at first that he asked, but after that dies down, you eventually get bored. Statistically, 76% of relationships that end, end because the partners felt bored (Hill, Rubin, Peplau, 1976). Plus, too much insecurity leads to depression (ie. feelings of not being "good enough'' or "liked"). On the other hand too much of confidence may make you look like a jerk and an idiot and that over-confidence may lead to that person taking everyone around him for granted. So I think the best would be the middle, for guys and girls. These are also generalizations.
personally, i don't randomly askfor#'s just because that seems like that I'm JUST looking for someone and don't really care who (one reason i don't club, though it is fun). More importantly, don't get a g/f just to have a g/f. To hook up, I rather hang out first where everything is laid back, get to know the person, talk, feel that this is the person I'm interested in, really enjoy the company of, the person i am ga-ga over, and is someone i would be monogamous with-->then i would try to move things forward. Also, having no initial agenda/expectation (sex) is the best way, i think, to first approach all of this--love instead of lust. Basically, don't do it just to get laid, unless that's your goal for the time being.
boys are turds, but most mature (some early, some later) and grow out of it.
I guess it's all about assumptions and expectations.
~ Sofi ~
"And so tomorrow there will be another number for the one who had a name."
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