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ok well i wasnt sure where to go for this, but ill j ust put it here....
be nice and sry if this is cheesy but im have trouble.... see theres this girl who i have alot of feelings for....the thing is we just finished our first year of college and we were good friends, however she is transferring to another college and i may never see her again. before we left i wrote her a letter telling her ill miss her....and then she gave me a note after... I am not sure wat to do now.... i dont think she knows how i truly feel and i dont know how to tell her..i dont have her number, but she has mine... i have her sn and thats all....she lives at least 2 hours from me i believe and i am totaly not sure wat to do....i really care for her, and never had feelings like this before.... anyways i dont know what to do.... and im really having a hard time dealin with this...what kills me the most is that she could be the one and i will never truly know cuz shes to far away and i feel that this is a one way feeling....she hasnt said anythin to me or shown anythin to make it seem she does....i dont know what will hurt more....never knowing what could happen, or finding out that the jokes on me.... i just need to vent this out, cuz i got no body else i can tell... NINE DAYS!!
hmmmm.......my advice is to just tell her cause you will forever beat yourself up if you don't know. Getting shot down (which hopefully won't happen to you, I really am wishing it doesn't) will at least leave you with some amount of closure. that is what i would do if i were in your shoes. Best wishes and good luck.
Rock on... Kevin I wanna be with you forever, and tomorrows not too late... "Beware the fury of a patient man" ~John Dryden
and a sidenote, what is it with all you gals and causing problems, eh? it seems like every guy on this board is having problems with a girl.....*shakes head* I don't get it man
Rock on... Kevin I wanna be with you forever, and tomorrows not too late... "Beware the fury of a patient man" ~John Dryden
hey kev i dont have problems with them, **** them and their **** nooo.... just kidding...
the only thing worse than rejection is regret? not always, people say that because it makes them feel good about confronting someone, gives them another reason to tell someone they love them... i think rejection is far worse, i mean, you may never be able to talk to that person again without a strange feeling. but regreting it? eh, you'll get over them... we all do. -Brian
I also have gurl problems, they dont like me coz im a *******, hahahahaha
http://groups.msn.com/Andreasoverseaspics/mestup.msnw
Good luck, God speed, and all that jazz.
Hope for the best. -Mike Go listen to my band. We're awesome. http://www.myspace.com/rosencrantzny weallgotwoodandnails
TELL HER......but ummmm why do you not have her number? that just seems a little odd to me......anyway don't worry about it, cause if she is The One something will happen to where you guys are together......besides it's easy to think something is hard at the time, but you really need to just get over the idea that something's hard, cause it really isn't. Nothing is hard unless you make it hard, so stop freaking out about telling her and just tell her. The distance doesn't matter either, if it's going to work it will no matter what distance there is, trust me on this one.
thanx u guys.... and i dont have her number cuz i never asked for it... i just have her sn....anyways im goin to do my best not to worry, im gonna go and enjoy every moment of it, and if it all works out ill tell here..
i know distance doesnt matter, cuz id do anything for her..hopefully im not setting myself up for a downfall, but its worth a shot.. thanx again for all of your help NINE DAYS!!
well, if it's any consolation, i'm gonna try and get back together w/ my ex-girlfriend starting tomorrow, so i'm with you on the "hopefully i'm not seeting myself up for a downfall" bit. when's it's good, there's nothing better....
Rock on... Kevin I wanna be with you forever, and tomorrows not too late... "Beware the fury of a patient man" ~John Dryden
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THIS is why girl problems AREN'T REALLY PROBLEMS. -Mike Go listen to my band. We're awesome. http://www.myspace.com/rosencrantzny weallgotwoodandnails
A word to the wise: become a master.
-Mike Go listen to my band. We're awesome. http://www.myspace.com/rosencrantzny weallgotwoodandnails
well....im not sure wat to say, but i had an amazing time. we went to the beach and talked all day. then i went to my friends house that night and came home today and went to her house on the way back and took her out to lunch and turned out to hang out all afternoon....i guess it was kinda of bittersweet, im not sure if im usin that right but, it was fantastic but when it came to the end of the trip i realize that i had to say goodbye once again......so i dont know what hurts more, the fact shes so far away and i dont know how she feels, or that there is nothin left i can do to get her..well that i can think of...."im not sleeping and shes not here, thats what stops my heart"-letters to you - Finch.... im sure everyone can figure out how i feel from this...
NINE DAYS!!
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